Being A Gentleman Is A Lifestyle. You Must Live It, Not Just Simply Act Like One When Needed.
Being a gentleman isn’t like a light switch where you turn on and off. You can’t just be a gentleman when you’re trying to impress a lady or when you’re trying to get something.
That is not being a gentleman at all.
You have to be kind, courteous, chivalrous, patient, polite, trustworthy, considerate, loyal, respectful, etc all the time. No one is perfect but you just want to work on being a better person every day.
Also, the gentleman lifestyle isn’t about wearing suits or being dressed up all the time. Clothes have nothing to do with it. A complete selfish ass can wear nice suits and dress like what we all envision a gentleman to be but at the end of the day, they’re still an ass.
It’s about your character that defines you as a good person – a gentleman. Your character speaks volumes when no one else is around.
If you work on being a good person every single day, you’re already living a gentleman lifestyle. Keep it up! We need more people like you!